Thaitay All Day

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I’m really taking Thailand to heart, in preparation for the upcoming vacation.  Since sometime in the spring, I reacquainted myself with Thai music.  When my ex and I were together, he played Thai music, but I never took note of the names of any of the artists or songs.  It’s as if I’m rediscovering all of it on my own.  I’ve found that one of my favorite groups, Thaitanium, plays (gulp!) Thai hip hop!  Their music is on repeat on my iPad.  Imagine my joy when I found out that Thaitanium, after a 5 year absence, would be returning to do a mini concert Stateside, which would start in…  San Francisco!  I JUMPED on that ticket!

Last week I bussed it over to DNA Lounge in the SoMa area; not a place I usually hang at night.  I was there a little early, not sure what to expect.  L.A. has a HUGE Thai population.  I wasn’t sure if San Francisco had a huge Thai population, or whether the word was out that Thaitanium would be in town.  The doors opened at 10:00 a.m. and the crowd was really sparse inside.  For an hour, I suffered through a Thai singer and his accompanying guitarist.  He wasn’t THAT bad, but he truly wasn’t good enough to be opening for Thaitanium.  Let’s be real here.  There was another hour of a DJ playing mostly the type of house/electronic/dance music that makes me want to shoot myself.  I had to have at least one drink to get me through it.

Around 12:15 a.m. Thaitanium was in the building.  By then, the crowd was packed in there.  I’d squished myself as close to the front as possible, barring the VIP tables directly in front of the stage. The crowd, as expected, appeared to be 95% Thai. Let me tell you, this crowd was down to party AND they imbibed whiskey as if Prohibition were about to hit. Earlier in the evening, a woman had spoken to me in English, asking if it would be ok for her to place her drinks on the table next to me. Since most people mistake me for Thai, I asked if she spoke Thai. She said “No, I’m actually Filipino!” With that, I had to laugh and explain that I’m Filipino as well and don’t speak Thai, either! Her friend and she had recently seen some Thaitanium postings on Instagram and kind of spur-of-the-moment decided to check it out. We both agreed that Dek Tay (a.k.a. “daboyway”) has exactly the kind of swagger that we like! Meanwhile, the 3 women on my right side appeared to be “older.” I use that term loosely, as I’m “older” myself. These women appeared to be mothers that were clearly out of their element, though. It seemed that they were there with a younger guy, who may have been the son of one of them. All I know is that the guy kept screaming in my ear like a little girl, and the 3 women kept dancing wildly, laughing at each other, nudging me to laugh at one or more of them, then filming as much as possible.

Thaitanium put on a hell of a show. They sounded great live and were very high energy – dancing, singing, joking around, pouring whiskey from their own bottles for the people at the VIP tables, etc. No, I didn’t understand most of what they were singing about; they sing about 70% Thai and 30% English, if that much. Even so, I recognized certain songs & sang along to the few words that I DID know!

When the show was over and I departed, I made a point to pick up one of their snapbacks (I LOVE that it says “Run BKK”) and a T-shirt.

Their next stop was Boardner’s in Los Angeles, an old hangout of mine. Wish I could have been there, too, but I’ll be watching like a hawk for their next return to San Francisco!

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Easy Like Sunday Morning

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Sunday morning called for an earlier than usual wake-up to deal with packing all of my things, which were scattered all around the apartment.  It never takes me as long as expected to pack up things when LEAVING a destination, which is a good thing.  I took a few pictures of the apartment for reference, once my things were out of the way.  Aside from the 3 flights of stairs, I wouldn’t hesitate to stay there again.  The location was perfect, the kitchen was great and the sofa bed was comfortable.  Next time, I’ll try to pack a little lighter, though, so as not to give myself a heart attack getting my suitcase upstairs.

Once everything was relatively in order, my first stop was David’s Antiques.  Although they’d been closed on Saturday, they opened bright and early at 8:00 a.m. on Sunday.  I’d planned to look at more of the loose cameos. Besides the cameos, this time I made a point to look at some other silver jewelry, beings it was 50% off.  Cuff links are another of my collectibles and I managed to find a nice pair of silver and jade ones.  The saleswoman put those aside with a pair of silver and cameo earrings.  I was getting out my wallet to pay when my eyes spied a case of antique Afghan silver jewelry.  It contained a stunning silver and peridot necklace that looked even more stunning on ME than in the case!  Naturally, that was one of the few cases of silver jewelry that was NOT on sale because it was Afghan jewelry.  She knew how badly I wanted it, though, so worked with me to give me a slight discount.  Even with the discount, it cost more than the cuff links and earrings combined, so those had to go back in their respective places.  They suggested that I take a picture of the silver and cameo earrings because, if I decide that I want them in the near future, I can always send them the photo to inquire if they still have them.  They assured me that anything can be shipped to me.

After my shopping adventure, I made my way to The Grill.  There was a huge line on Sunday morning.  For a moment, I thought about going somewhere else, but didn’t want to lose my place in line, in case another place was similarly packed.  The wait may have been 15 to 20 minutes.  My palate was not craving the usual breakfast food, but yearned for a chicken salad sandwich on toasted wheat bread, along with a Coke.  As the waiter brought my order, I noticed that his name tag said “Ricky.”  “Are YOU Pretty Ricky?” I asked.  “Yes!  Who have you been talking to?” he smiled.  “John.  He told me that you’d be taking care of me today.”  Pretty Ricky was even friendlier after that.  All the guys in there are super nice, though.  Pretty Ricky asked where I was from, then announced to everyone, as well as pointing out, which patrons were from San Francisco.  There were a fair amount of us!  The guy on my right was with a group of guys in town for Southern Decadence, of course.  He was actually from Dallas and said that this was his first time to The Big Easy.  Although he’d loved the experience, he confessed that he’d probably never return.  “Why?  If you like it so much?”  I asked.  He said that the 8 block stretch of Bourbon Street, crammed with men and alcohol at every turn, was too much (i.e. too tempting); he couldn’t be doing that all the time.  I told him that he just needs to come back when it’s NOT Southern Decadence, get off of Bourbon Street and see what else New Orleans has to offer.  He hadn’t thought about that yet, but said that it was probably a good idea to come back to New Orleans during a NORMAL time, then go on some plantation and swamp tours and such.

My last bit of business for the morning was to make another stop at Central Grocery to get half a muffelatta for the long journey back to San Francisco.  I’d been happy to discover that they were open on a Sunday, as they never used to be.

I took my time getting my luggage downstairs, dragging that suitcase down at least 45 minutes before the shuttle was to arrive.  Once all 3 pieces were down in the courtyard, I sat in the apartment awhile cooling myself off with the air conditioning.  When I turned the air conditioning off and locked everything up, I sat in the courtyard drinking some San Pellegrino until it was time to roll my luggage half a block away in front of the Ste. Helene Hotel, where the shuttle would be picking me up.

Originally, my return flight was a direct flight scheduled for 7:30 p.m.  Sometime within the last month or two, United Airlines had changed it to a 2:30 p.m. flight with a connection through Houston.  They hadn’t even called me or sent me an E-mail in regards to the change.  When I called them to complain a week before my departure, the United Airlines representative had been sympathetic.  There were no more direct flights out late in the day/evening.  The latest she could put me on was at 4:30 p.m., but with short connections in both Houston and Los Angeles.  I didn’t care because I wanted as much time in New Orleans as possible.  Since I was fine with the 4:30 p.m. flight and two connections, she was kind enough to upgrade me to roomier seats in the front of the plane for free.  It DID make a difference.  Let me tell you, that half a muffelatta really came in handy, too!  There were no little doggies on any of my return flights, but there WERE two children sitting next to me on my L.A. to San Francisco flight.  All of my close friends know that children (of any age) give me the heebie jeebies.  I put my headphones on and tried to sleep, but the seemingly 8-year old girl fell asleep with her head half on my shoulder.  I nearly screamed, but managed to maintain until the landing in San Francisco.

There you have it – drinking, eating, shopping, taking pictures, zydeco, brass bands and Southern Decadence.  I even have a couple of new Facebook friends to show for it.

In the Quarter

In the Quarter

Counter at Central Grocery

Counter at Central Grocery

In the Quarter

In the Quarter

Me in my Steampunk Top Hat

Me in my Steampunk Top Hat

 

 

 

 

 

Where in the Hoodoo is the Voodoo?

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Saturday was the day that I planned to get out the DSLR and take some big girl pictures.  What’s the point of lugging the damned thing across the country if you’re not going to put it to use?  Of course, once I was dressed and ready, DSLR strapped around my neck, I heard, to my chagrin, heavy rain beginning.  Thinking it would taper off in 15 minutes or so, I waited…  and waited.  When it didn’t taper off, I decided to take an hour’s nap!  By the time my nap was finished, it had seemed to lighten up quite a bit.  I had my umbrella, anyway.

I made a final dash through The French Market.  There still weren’t any voodoo dolls made of Spanish moss!  What the heck, people?!  Someone mentioned that the ones made of Spanish moss were notorious for having chiggers.  Mine didn’t and neither did the ones that I’d bought for friends in the past.  The “new” style simply doesn’t do it for me.  Someone suggested that I make my own, but I’m no voodoo priestess; nor do I have access to Spanish moss!  I gave up and bought a few of the ones made of twigs and stones.  Then to avoid the rain, which had started again, I actually took a gander at what else was for sale in there.  As an Eiffel Tower fanatic, I couldn’t pass up the Eiffel Tower trinket box.  Nothing else was a must-have, however.

Back over in Jackson Square, I dashed into Shushan’s because the cutest Swarovski-laden bunny purse seemed to be calling my name.  Priced at over $200, though, I decided to play deaf.  Instead I found 2 other New Orleans-esque items that made a fashion statement – a steampunk top hat and a pair of “platform” slippers with Swarovski crystals and a fleur-de-lys on each.  I’ve long been admiring steampunk top hats at festivals in San Francisco.  They’re usually leather and in the vicinity of $250 and up.  This one, though not leather, was a steal in comparison.  I bought the slippers because my canvas shoes were soaked and wearing my regular slippers wouldn’t help much.  The height of these slippers would help me avoid some puddles, at the very least.

By now, it was lunch time again.  My cousin, who’d been to New Orleans a month ago, had suggested getting crab cakes at Pierre Maspero’s.  It may have been due to the rain, but the place was ridiculousness in there.  I couldn’t handle it, so went back to K-Paul’s instead.  I ordered a bowl of gumbo and a meatloaf po’ boy, not aware that it came with potato salad.  I had to have a spicy Bloody Mary as well.  Lunch at K-Paul’s was NOT cheap!  The gumbo was $5.00, the Bloody Mary was $10.00 and the po’ boy was $13.00!  I should have skipped both the gumbo and the Bloody Mary.  The gumbo was fine flavor-wise, but wasn’t thick enough.  Didn’t they start that with a roux or what?!  The potato salad was kinda’ soupy and the Bloody Mary was too spicy for me to finish.  The po’ boy was good, but actually simply tasted like a cheeseburger.  In other words, skip lunch at K-Paul’s, but do go for dinner.

Exploring further in the French Quarter, I later came upon Voodoo Authentica (or something like that) that had many Spanish moss voodoo and other dolls.  Their voodoo dolls were much more expensive and were geared to specific wishes.  My cousin had wanted a “general” one and besides, I’d already given up and bought those at The French Market.

Bambi de Ville on Royal Street used to be a shop specializing in prints.  Now they have vintage (i.e. used) clothing.  Having worn hand-me-downs for ages, I’ve never been a fan of vintage clothing.  Bambi, however, had a fantabulous collection of perfectly preserved, exquisite dresses for reasonable prices, considering the quality.  I was almost tempted to try a few on, but thought better of it.  I keep telling myself that I’ll probably be having some clothes tailored in Thailand, so do NOT need to be buying any at this time.

Back at the apartment, I dropped off my purchases, freshened up and rested.  Before long, I got antsy again.

Just down the street was Kingfish.  I walked in to a pianist playing in the bar area, as well as party hats atop the piano.  When I asked the bartender whose birthday it was, he replied “Huey Long,” who just happened to be their namesake.  I don’t know the history, but believe he was a politician whose nickname was Kingfish.  As I downed a few glasses of Prosecco, the 3 people next to me asked where I was from.  They were from Cali, too – San Diego – and come to New Orleans once or twice a year.  We talked restaurants and bars awhile; they were getting ready to have dinner at the French Market Restaurant, which just happens to be across the street from The French Market.

Once they left, I made my way back to Pierre Maspero’s and squeezed in at the bar for dinner.  Aric was my very competent server/bartender.  As per my cousin’s suggestion, I ordered the crab cakes, plus a shrimp Caesar salad.  The crab cakes were big and meaty, seemingly with little filler.  To me, the sauce was rather like Thousand Island, which I like.  They were good, but I’ve had better.  The shrimp Caesar was also good; the shrimp were served warm, since they were grilled.  I had a beer and somehow struck  up a conversation with the 3 guys on my left.  Of course, they were in town for Southern Decadence.  The one closest to me was Filipino, but (like me) doesn’t speak a word of any Filipino dialect!  I believe he was from San Diego and had lived in San Francisco for a year before moving to New York, which he found much more exciting.  When one of his friends mentioned something about wanting to go out and get a fleur-de-lys tattoo, I showed him mine – a Christmas present from my ex-husband, even after we were divorced!

By that time, I was ready to brave Bourbon Street awhile.  I went into my preferred drinking hole, Krazy Korner, and watched some live R&B band.  The couple standing in front of my table was incredibly  drunk, mainly the woman.  She kept apologizing for blocking my view and bumping into me, hugging me every time.  Then she showed me her T-shirt, of which she was very proud.  It said “I love my hot husband!”  He was pretty proud, too!

I continued onwards to the bar at Muriel’s Restaurant, which was being hosted by a female bartender on this evening.  When I asked HER if the bar was haunted, she replied affirmatively.  She said that many, many times in her 8 years of employ there, bottles had routinely flown off of the shelves.  What’s more amazing is that NONE of them ever broke.  I inquired about the upstairs lounge, which she said was open, as there had been a bachelorette party up there earlier.  She definitely recommended checking it out, which I did post haste.  The rooms were predominantly red, there was a cool (as in temperature-wise) feel to them, they were playing Enigma, of all things, and it was deserted.  I sat down with my drink in an attempt to make myself comfortable, but…  I couldn’t.  It creeped me out a bit, though I couldn’t put my finger on exactly why.  I decided to finish my drink back downstairs in the bar.  As the bartender and I discussed haunted New Orleans further, she said that the strangest place she’d ever stayed was at The Columns Hotel out in the Garden District, the hotel where “Pretty Baby” had been filmed.  She said the rooms were huge, but odd in some way and that she’d definitely felt a presence, even though another person had been with her.  She couldn’t imagine how strange it would be to stay in one of those rooms by oneself.

Rather than continuing to drink, I decided it would be best to go back to the apartment, chill out and wait until about 12:45 a.m. to pop into The Grill, apologize to the guys and see if they were almost ready to go out for drinks.  When I showed up there, they DID ask “What happened to you last night?”  I told them I’d fallen asleep again, which is what happens when you drink all day!  John told me that he’d even waited for me until 2:00 a.m., for which I profusely apologized.  Today, however, I’d paced myself and would be ready to join them for a few rounds at 1:00 a.m.  It was not to be, though, as they had to work until 3:00 a.m.  In that case, I just parked myself at the counter, informing them that I’d be drinking there and keeping them company until 3:00 a.m.  With both Jack and John attending to me, I downed about 4 Abitas and took a picture with both of them before leaving.  When I mentioned being back in the morning for breakfast, they said that Pretty Ricky from the morning crew would most likely be helping me.  They also told me that Brandon would flirt with me, but to pay him no mind!

That was my last night in New Orleans – nothing crazy, but a very enjoyable time for me.  I was still bummed about the voodoo dolls, though.

Lunch at K-Paul's Restaurant

Lunch at K-Paul’s Restaurant

Beads at The French Market

Beads at The French Market

Crab cakes from Pierre Maspero's

Crab cakes from Pierre Maspero’s

Somewhere in the Quarter

Somewhere in the Quarter

Part of the "lounge" at Muriel's Restaurant

Part of the “lounge” at Muriel’s Restaurant

 

 

 

 

 

Weekend in The Big Easy Begins

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Friday morning saw me crawling out of bed around 9:30 a.m. again.  I decided to walk to the Fauborg-Marigny, a.k.a. simply “The Marigny.”  It was probably a 20 minute walk, give or take, from my apartment.  Aside from restaurants and coffee shops, not much was open yet.  Breakfast at Rose Nicaud Café seemed like a good idea; ordered a grilled cheese (pear and provolone on 9-grain), along with watermelon-cucumber juice.  They were fine; not outstanding.  I could probably make both at home and jazz them up a bit, though.

There was another quick dash through The French Market in hopes that new vendors might be there with the Spanish moss voodoo dolls.  No such luck! I didn’t take the time to really peruse any of the other things for sale.

I stopped in at Rouse’s Market, formerly A&P, on Royal Street.  This is my go-to place for Cajun/Creole spices and packaged mixes, as they’re always cheaper than the tourist places and generally cheaper than places like Walgreens as well.  Since the heat and humidity was beginning to get to me, I loaded up on drinkables instead – the non-alcoholic kind (for the most part).

After dropping the beverages off at the apartment, I finally dared to venture into a few of the antique stores on Royal Street.  Although James H. Cohen & Sons specializes in guns and coins, I’d found a nicely-sized loose cameo there about 12 years ago.  They’d had a small, medium and very large one, all decently priced.  I’d decided on the medium one, and the saleswoman even gave me an additional discount.  I eventually took that cameo to Los Angeles and had it set as a gold pendant.  Whenever I wear it, people comment on how pretty it is.  Makes me forever regret not buying the large one, too!  There were no cameos in their store this time, though they had Roman, Greek, Spanish and even Japanese silver and gold coin jewelry.  Moving on to Keil’s Antiques and Naghi’s, I came to the realization that everything seems to have increased in price from my last trip a mere year and a half ago.  All of the pocket watches, cuff links, Creole bracelets, cameo jewelry and Russian lacquer boxes are now far out of my price range.  My last stop was at David’s Antiques because they were having a sale – 50% discount on silver and 10% discount on gold.  There were several nice silver pieces, some were antique and some were not.  Naturally, the cameos set in silver that I liked were huge and elaborate, which still made them pricey.  Fortunately, I spied several very small loose cameos which were quite affordable.  I bought a few of those and intend to make them into gold rings on my next trip to Los Angeles.  They were trying to talk me into looking in-depth at several other pieces, but I had to rush off to my lunch reservation.

Muriel’s Restaurant bordering Jackson Square was my lunch destination.  They started me off with turtle soup with sherry, then followed that up with a wood-grilled beef tenderloin salad, which also had cherry tomatoes, parmesan and tart blackberries.  Blackberries remind me of my Grandmother’s backyard, where raspberries and blackberries grew wild.  Both the soup and the salad were good, but, once again, not outstanding.  Service was in the good range as well.  On the menu, it instructs customers to ask their server about Antoine.  It turns out Antoine was the former owner of the house that the restaurant is in.  He was a ne-er-do-well who drank and gambled heavily.  Once he ended up losing the house in a bet, he hung himself there.  That’s why it’s supposedly haunted.  I’d also heard before that specifically the bar and/or upstairs/slave quarters were haunted.  After lunch, I moseyed on over to their bar to treat myself to a Honey Child – Cathead honeysuckle vodka, blackberries, basil and Chambord.  Honeysuckle reminds me of Grandma, too, as it grew on her front porch. When I asked the bartender if the bar was haunted, he merely said that, if anything fell or broke, he blamed it on Antoine!

The French Quarter is dotted with plenty of cute boutique clothing stores.  Of course, it was the “Sale” signs that were drawing me in.  Hemline was having a sale with certain items at 80% off.  I went in, honed in on a flowing cotton top, tried it on (fit perfectly) and purchased it, happy to know that I’d saved more than $100! Then I went back to the apartment, freshened up and put said purchase on immediately!

Another place that’s been talked up a bit these days is Patrick’s Bar Vin, connected to Hotel Mazarin on Bienville Street.  Various reviews comment on how friendly and welcoming Patrick himself is, while a few proclaim him to be a drunk.  Either way, I had to check it out.  The place was cozy and maybe half full, mostly locals, but with some tourists.  I squeezed in at the bar and ordered a glass of merlot.  I was sipping and observing when Patrick walked in wearing a red seersucker jacket.  Men in the South carry off seersucker so well!  He was working the room and eventually made his way over to me.  He was charming; taking a real interest in what I had to say and attempting to introduce me to people.  Which reminds me, the locals sitting next to me asked the tourists (next to them) where they were from.  When the couple answered “Rhode Island,” the local woman proclaimed “They’re Yankees!”  Made me laugh! After my glass of wine, as I was gathering my things to leave, Patrick asked where I was going.  I was off in search of sustenance.  He strongly suggested that I return by 6:00 p.m., as a “drinking” group/club would be there from 6:00 to 7:30 p.m., or thereabouts, and it would a great opportunity for me to meet more people, thus I promised to return.

After 4 meals at nice sit-down restaurants, it was time to get down and dirty.  Much ado has been made about the peanut butter and bacon burger at Yo Mama Bar and Grill on St. Peter, just off of Bourbon.  There was both a downstairs and an upstairs area; I opted for upstairs.  In the future, however, go for the downstairs as it’s too dim and dark upstairs – the perfect place to eat and drink after you’re already hammered and don’t want anyone to see/recognize you!  Feeling guilty from all of the heavy foods over the past few days, I ordered the burger with a salad as my side, rather than a baked potato or fries. Of course, there was that beer, too.  The burger was a mess to eat, but a unique and tasty combination!  It’s not something I would eat every week, but maybe once a month.  Yet again, I could probably experiment at home and get the right peanut butter to bacon ratio for me.

True to my word, I returned to Patrick’s Bar Vin.  The place was packed and even more lively by then.  Patrick saw me walk in and immediately gestured to the bartender.  The bartender poured my preferred merlot and handed it to Patrick, who personally delivered it to me.  I found myself sitting in the sofa area next to a few local couples.  Jeanie, I believe that was her name, started talking to me and introducing me around.  She told me that she frequents The Grill; often also walks past there, bangs on the window and dances.  She said that I should go there and ask for John.  Another suggestion of hers was a foot massage place a few blocks away.  While we were talking, Patrick tapped me on the shoulder.  I turned to find another glass of merlot on the table next to me.  When it was time for me to head out, Patrick gave me hugs, kisses and his card, pointing out his cell phone number!

My feet led me in the direction of Frenchmen Street in the Marigny.  Since Frenchmen is the main thoroughfare, most of the bars and restaurants were already filled to capacity.  Rather than paying a cover and/or fighting with a crowd, I listened to a brass band playing on one of the corners for awhile.  There’s also a new “art market” that takes place during the latter half of the week on Frenchmen, starting at 7:00 p.m.  It was my first time checking it out as it probably started within the last year, but nothing caught my eye.

As if I needed more alcohol, I made my way back over to Cane & Table.  That Shamu glass would be mine, come Hell or high water!  By then, as you might have imagined, I was toasted, so can’t remember my order.  As the bartender got ready to mix, I inquired about the Shamu glass.  Oddly, he seemed a tad perturbed and informed me that my order wasn’t appropriate for the Shamu glass.  When I asked which cocktail would best compliment the glass, he suggested a Hawaiian something or other.  (Why does anything deemed Hawaiian always contain either pineapple or coconut?!)  Rather than piss him off further, I let him mix one up for me.  The Shamu glass WAS cute, but the drink failed to impress me.  Honestly, in my opinion the 3 male bartenders that night were rather dorky.  The woman next to me started a conversation, but, being toasted, I don’t recall anything!  My consensus is that Cane & Table is overrated on their drinks (and bartenders), the glass IS cute and the ambience has potential, but their food menu doesn’t interest me, either.  Probably will never bother with that place again (and I’ll buy my own Shamu glass).

Cut to me now stumbling through the French Quarter, nearly home.  As I passed The Grill, more food to soak up the alcohol seemed like my best bet.  Another burger, something called The Hickman, seemed to fit the bill.  I inhaled as much as possible, but couldn’t finish it.  In fact, the guys were teasing me, asking if I was enjoying it.  So I asked for John, who was right there in front of me; we talked about Jeanie.  He said that she’d already come by and wanted to go dancing at Oz at 1:00 a.m.  Was I in?  Ummm, ok.  In the meantime, Leonard and other guys were joking around with me, assuring me that they were going, too.  It was 11:30 p.m., but felt like 2:30 a.m.  I informed the guys that I’d be at my apartment taking a nap, half a block away, but would be back by 1:00 a.m. to go dancing with them at Oz.

The nap came easily (i.e. quickly).  My alarm went off at 12:30 a.m. and I put my contacts back in.  It would only take 5 minutes for me to walk downstairs and to The Grill, so I sat watching TV.  Wouldn’t you know it?  I passed out again!  I woke up later, thinking that maybe a 10-15 minute cat nap had taken place.  It was 1:44 a.m.!!!  Oh no, I thought, I’m late for the party!  Assuming that they’d given up on me and left without me, I promptly went back to sleep!

A few bikes

A few bikes

A Little Nature in The Quarter

A Little Nature in The Quarter

Art in Jackson Square

Art in Jackson Square

Simpsons Pipes at a Store on Decatur Street

Simpsons Pipes at a Store on Decatur Street

First Full Day in New Orleans

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Contrary to my usual habit of waking up early wherever I am in the world, I crawled out of bed sometime between 9:00 a.m. and 9:30 a.m. on Thursday. My breakfast consisted of left over bread pudding. Scrumptious!

Since there was nothing in particular on the agenda, I headed to Jackson Square and into St. Louis Cathedral. It always strikes me as such a pretty church, especially the ceiling. Then, because my cousin had requested some, I went in search of voodoo dolls at the French Market. On EVERY other trip to New Orleans, I could easily find voodoo dolls made from Spanish moss. My very first voodoo doll from my very first trip there is made from Spanish Moss and, believe me, the few times I’ve put it to use, it worked quite well!!! Now, however, all of the voodoo dolls in the French Market seem to be made of twigs and rocks, covered in gaudy material. In other words, they definitely look touristy.

My new friend, Triskell, had mentioned that she worked at Villa Convento on Ursulines and had invited me to stop by whenever. I took her up on that offer and stopped by that morning. Apparently, before moving to New Orleans, that was the hotel that she always used to stay in! I found her at reception and she showed me their back courtyard, as well as the unusual, padded elevator.

Afterwards I wandered around the French Quarter a bit more taking photos until it was time for lunch. I had a 1:00 p.m. reservation at Galatoire’s Restaurant, at the lower end of Bourbon Street (closer to Canal Street). I’ve eaten there twice before and love the tradition of it all. You’ll often see the waiters make a big show of pouring café brulot where the tablecloth is seemingly on fire momentarily. Waiters wear black jackets, black pants, white shirts and bow ties, even at lunch. In fact, as they’re getting ready to seat you, they’ll ask if you have a favorite waiter. Apparently, some regulars request the same waiter for years. Waiters even hand out their cards to locals who may become regular customers of theirs. If, like me, you don’t have a favorite waiter, DO request to be seated downstairs. It’s much more fun downstairs than it is upstairs. The Coolinary Menu at Galatoire’s consisted of either an appetizer and entrée, or an entrée and a dessert. I chose the former, because the less dessert I eat, the better! My starter was a chilled English cucumber soup with smoked salmon on the bottom. That’s not a combination that I would ever have imagined, but it was refreshing and very tasty. My entrée was the petit filet bonne femme served with some asparagus spears. Unfortunately, the filet was a little dry, but still had enough flavor for me. As for the asparagus, I despise asparagus! I sipped on my glass of pinot noir instead.

Then there was more wandering in the French Quarter. On my last trip I’d taken a picture of a white dog, only to find out later that he was a “famous” three-legged dog (which I hadn’t even noticed when he was laying down)! J.W. belongs to the owner of the Mississippi River Bottom (aka. MRB) on St. Phillip, a bar which also serves food. He’s apparently famous because he loves to play with the balls on the pool table, which (unfortunately for me) he didn’t do this day. When I walked in, J.W. greeted me at the front, as if we were old friends. He had a green toy in his mouth, so I played with him for awhile and another patron took a few pictures of us. The heat and humidity had a large part in my decision to sit down for a Heineken while J.W. posted himself right by my barstool. Another customer said that J.W. was guarding me. Even though having eaten not long before, I couldn’t help but order some Natchitoches meat pies; one order was $7.00 and consisted of two meat pies. I’d never had a meat pie before and was very curious. The waitress said that they were filled with ground beef, onion and spices, and that they were spicy. When my order arrived, they appeared very much like empanadas. True to her word, they were spicy! I liked them a lot, but could only manage one; she packed the other to go. I hugged J.W. goodbye and resumed my walkabout before eventually returning to the apartment to regroup.

My dinner reservation was at Mr. B’s Bistro at 7:00 p.m. My appetizer was the sea scallops served with arugula – big, succulent and sweet. Once again, I had a petit filet served with blue cheese Yukon Gold potatoes and haricot verts. The filet was NOT dry at all and was, therefore, better than the one at Galatoire’s. Even so, the potatoes were probably my favorite part of the meal! Malbec was my wine of choice. Service also rivaled that at Galatoire’s. Everyone was so pleasant and attentive, but in a way that seemed sincere and unobtrusive. I skipped dessert, as my caloric intake had been relatively high for the day! The hostess said “Good Night” and complimented my dress upon my departure.

Back at the apartment, I changed once more to get ready to go see Nathan and the Zydeco Cha Chas at the Rock N Bowl. Shorts, a loose top and canvas shoes seemed appropriate again. The cab ride out there was about $15, but I’d prepaid my ticket for the show. The young Syrian cab driver mentioned that he’d been living in New Orleans for 6 years and got all kinds of crazy passengers. He insisted that he knew how to deal with drunk customers, though, and wouldn’t hesitate to kick them out of his cab! The “new” Rock N Bowl seems more spacious than the old one and is undoubtedly more modern, but lacks a little in the great ambience of the former. I’m not sure where my love of zydeco music began, but Buckwheat Zydeco is my favorite zydeco musician. Nathan is another favorite, though. My knowledge of zydeco dancing is limited, though 3 men schooled me in it way back in 2004 at the old space. It had been incredibly fun dancing with them. Although several men asked me to dance on this evening, I figured that I’d return on Saturday to see Rockin’ Dopsie, at which point, I would dance. In the meantime, I opted to down several Heinekens and enjoy the music. After a few hours had passed, I had them call a cab for me and waited outside.

This cab driver was a Puerto Rican guy who’d moved to New Orleans from New York 12 years ago. I said that he should be making a ton of money this weekend due to Southern Decadence, the Mad Decent Block Party and Labor Day, in general. He assured me that, in a good month, he banks $10,000 in cash from driving a cab there! Beings New Orleans is a hot spot for partying, it would only make sense that both bartenders and cab drivers could make beaucoup bucks! I asked him if there were certain parts of New Orleans that he wouldn’t drive to. He said that he’d drive me absolutely anywhere (even though customers have attempted to rob him on a few occasions), although other cab drivers DO avoid certain areas. Lawrence had spent lots of time in the Middle East, Asia and Polynesia, so our conversation encompassed lots of traveling stuff. He mentioned that he’d like to take me out for a drink. I said to let me know when, to which he responded “How about now?!” Since he works for himself, he makes his own hours. I had been intending to give Cane & Table on Decatur Street a try, so that’s where we went.

Cane & Table is a relatively new bar/restaurant that’s been getting lots of hype about their “artisan” cocktails and their special glass. I ordered something called the Watermelon Man and was disappointed when it was served in a regular champagne coupe. I asked the bartender if they had a special “whale” glass, which she confirmed. The guy sitting next to me said that some bartenders will serve whatever drink you want in the “Shamu” glass, but others are very picky about using it. My drink was fine, but nothing to write home about. The female bartender was nice, yet funky, in that New Orleans style. Lawrence had to get back to work, but gave me his phone number and said to give him about 20 minutes notice before I needed to be anywhere. With that, he took off. I seriously thought about having another drink elsewhere, but decided that it was better to pace myself, so walked back to the apartment, heaved a long sigh and dealt with those 3 flights of stairs.

Donkey and Carriage

Donkey and Carriage

Me with J.W., the Three-Legged Dog

Me with J.W., the Three-Legged Dog

J.W.'s Birthday Card

J.W.’s Birthday Card

Natchitoches Meat Pies

Natchitoches Meat Pies

Journey to the Crescent City

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I knew it would be an interesting trip as I boarded the plane on Wednesday morning. I was in Seat 22F. In Seats 22D and 22E sat two little dogs! A guy standing across the aisle was getting ready to take a picture of them sitting in their seats, but assured me that they were both his and he would be moving them out of my way momentarily. Turns out HE was sitting in Seat 22D and would be holding both dogs on a pillow on his lap. I didn’t realize the airlines would let small dogs travel like that. Maybe he had special circumstances or paid extra, though; didn’t ask him. A woman sat in the middle. Luckily for the man, we were both dog lovers!

My flight arrived on time to New Orleans. I’d overpacked, as usual. Since Mileage Plus Explorer card members get to check a suitcase both ways for free (as long as the ticket was charged on that credit card), I HAD to take a full suitcase, merely on principle! I also took a rolling laptop bag and a “purse” to hold my DSLR. Life would be so much more simple if only my DSLR fit into my laptop bag, but it doesn’t. So there you have it – 3 pieces of luggage for a 4-day trip. Once my suitcase showed up on the carousel, I wheeled it over to the airport shuttle counter. The elderly woman taking down my information called me “baby” several times in a matter of minutes! That’s one of the things that I find endearing about the South. Complete strangers are “baby,” “honey,” “sugar” and such. When the shuttle was full and we were on our way, the majority of the riders were there for Southern Decadence, a gay pride type of festival held annually in New Orleans over Labor Day weekend. There was only one other woman in the van, besides me.

This was my first time staying in an apartment in New Orleans. I’d rented a French Quarter studio apartment through VRBO. The owner had mailed the keys to me a few weeks ago. The location was perfectly located on Chartres Street, somewhere in the middle between Napoleon House and The Grill. When I unlocked the door to the courtyard, I was a little skeptical. It seemed even older than most courtyards in New Orleans. Then I saw the 3 flights of wooden circular stairs and remembered that my apartment was on the 3rd floor. THAT is the moment that I regretted overpacking! Believe me, lugging that stuff upstairs in about 90 degrees with high humidity was so not fun. I nearly passed out by the time I got everything upstairs and the apartment door open! The studio was really small, but nice. I especially liked the kitchen; perhaps, because it was the biggest room! The air conditioning was already on, so I took my time looking around. The cons were that there was barely any counter space in the bathroom and absolutely nowhere to hang any of my clothes. Thus, for the duration of my trip, part of my toiletries were on the kitchen counter, my suitcase remained in front of the TV, and my shoes and clothes were thrown everywhere! As I walked down the stairs to start my afternoon, two thoughts came to mind. The first was that I’d best not be too drunk at any time and fall down those stairs. The second was that the courtyard might creep me out at night if it was dark and no one was staying in the other apartments. Ok, I also admit to hoping that no part of the courtyard or my apartment was haunted!

My first stop was at the Erin Rose bar on Conti. I sat there and had a Heinie to cool me off. Then I went in the back of the bar where Killer Po’ Boys is set up and ordered a Cajun 5-Spice Meatloaf po’ boy, which came to about $10. I’d had a cilantro lime shrimp one the last trip. I dragged that po’ boy back to the apartment and threw it in the refrigerator. I already had a 5:45 p.m. dinner reservation at K-Paul’s, which was a block away from my apartment. That po’ boy was for my midnight snack, so I was definitely planning ahead!

Out of all of my trips to New Orleans (10-13 or so), I’ve never eaten at K-Paul’s, so it was long overdue. I put a summery dress on with some little heels and walked down there. I was greeted in a very friendly manner and asked if I’d ever eaten there before, to which the woman assured me that I’d enjoy it. There was no French or Italian bread to start me off. Instead, they brought a basket with 4 different types of breads. One was a Southern biscuit, one was something else that I don’t recall and the two I was interested in were the jalapeno-cheddar bread, along with the ginger-carrot-pecan biscuit/muffin thingy. They were both so good, but the ginger-carrot-pecan was my favorite. When the menu was given to me, I noticed that they didn’t list the Coolinary menu. In August of every year, New Orleans has a Coolinary event, which many restaurants participate in. They have 2- or 3-course prix fixe meals for a somewhat bargain price-wise. When I asked if they had the Coolinary menu, they brought it to me straight away. I settled on the fried green tomato over chipotle shrimp remoulade for my appetizer; the paneed chicken breast with jambalaya and veggies for my entrée; and the bread pudding for dessert. A glass of merlot completed everything. I’ve had fried green tomatoes once at Eat, another New Orleans restaurant. Their fried green tomatoes are supposed to be pretty good, but they had failed to impress me. The one at K-Paul’s, however, was delish. Maybe it was the chipotle shrimp remoulade that they were served over that made all the difference; don’t really know. The flavors worked well together. The paneed chicken breast was perfect – not greasy or oily, not too much coating. The jambalaya was good and the veggies were, um, veggies. The bread pudding was very good and rich and sweet and all of the things that are bad for you! I might slightly prefer the bread pudding at Galatoire’s, though. Service was excellent, as it generally is in the South. The time between my appetizer and entrée was a little bit long, so the waitress apologized and brought me a local guide to read. She also pointed out some clubs and bars in the vicinity and told me what type of music and crowds were at each. Suffice it to say that I didn’t finish all of my jambalaya or my bread pudding, which they happily packed up. The waitress mentioned that she’d thrown in some ginger-carrot-pecan biscuits as well, simply because she knew how much I liked them. My bill was about $50; it’s the alcohol that always ups that bill, anyway! By the end of the meal, I was feeling fat and sassy.

I was feeling even fatter when I remembered that I had 3 flights of stairs to walk up! Luckily, the courtyard was well lit. I noticed that there was someone in one of the apartments on the second floor, the one closest to the stairs. They had the curtains/shutters open, so I could see into their beautifully decorated place. I hobbled into my studio and collapsed on the couch, taking in all that air conditioning. I took a short nap, then freshened up and changed into shorts, a loose top and some canvas shoes ’cause I had a “date” with a stranger.

When I’d planned my trip to New Orleans, I’d posted on a few travel-related websites to see if anyone might be interested in joining me at either The Candlelight Lounge or The Rock N Bowl. One woman, Triskell, had answered to say that she’d join me if I wanted to go to Celebration Hall instead, then she attached a link to a video filmed there. The TBC Brass Band plays there on Wednesday nights. The video showed a bunch of guys dancing solo, doing their own thing, to a brass band. The crowd did NOT look mixed, but mainly African-American. Let me just put this out there. In my day, African-Americans were referred to as “black,” so that’s the term I still prefer to use. (Isn’t it funny how you can tell a person’s age by their terms – such as colored as opposed to African-American or Asian as opposed to Oriental?) Now back to Celebration Hall. It’s located in the 7th Ward, also part of Treme. Various people had mentioned to me that the area wasn’t safe or that certain cab drivers might refuse to go there. With all of those warnings, I looked at the video again. Did the people in the video look like the gang bang type? Not to me. Thus, I’d told Triskell that I’d be happy to give the place a try, as she’d never been there, either, although she’d moved to New Orleans a mere year ago. We agreed to meet in front of The Grill. She said that she’d be the woman with the purple hair and that she’d pick me up via cab. At 9:45 p.m., I was standing on the corner checking every cab that went by. When one pulled up and cab driver motioned for me to get in, I was hesitant. I couldn’t see who or even if anyone was in the back. Suddenly, the back door opened and I saw purple hair and heard someone call my name. You can never be too safe, though! I jumped in front with the driver, while noticing that Triskell had an accent. I couldn’t place the accent, so asked where she was from. She’s Polish! She was really nice and we weren’t uncomfortable talking to each other at all. When the cab pulled up to Celebration Hall, there were several people hanging around outside. No one paid that much attention when we got out of the cab. The first sign I saw as we walked to the door specified “No firearms.” My evening was bound to be as interesting as boarding the plane that morning! The cover was $5 and they quickly glanced in our purses. We went straight to the bar, where all drinks were $3.00 until 11 :00 p.m. (I think). The bartenders asked if it was our first time there (did we stick out that much?!), then assured us that we’d have lots of fun. A TV in the back was showing a Second Line Parade somewhere. Other patrons were sitting around drinking and talking. The band started about 10:30 p.m. Both of us truly enjoyed watching people, mostly men, dancing and a having a good time. We stood on the side of the dance floor and tried to make videos, but it was really dimly lit in there. Eventually a man walked up to me and started talking away. Due to the loud music, his somewhat soft voice, his Southern accent and his slang, I could barely understand anything that he was saying to me! The basis of it was that he wanted to buy me a drink. I let him buy me a drink and we attempted to talk. Mostly, he was taking me around and introducing me to everyone; tons of his friends and relatives were there and some of his relatives play in the Rebirth Brass Band. Triskell came looking for me after awhile, as she was a little concerned. I told her that I was fine, and that I definitely wouldn’t leave without her. After awhile, the guy took us outside to introduce us to more people. Plus, they had some barbecue going on out there – yet another thing that I love about the South! We must have stayed until about 1:00 a.m. before calling a cab. Triskell had to work at 7:00 a.m. and I was simply tired from getting up at 1:30 a.m. the previous morning. The guy wanted me to stay longer, but there was no way that Triskell and I were leaving separately, so he got my number and was happy with that.

Back at the studio, I suddenly had a second wind. I was on vacation after all and needed to go back out and get some air. I was actually looking for a little market to buy a Coke at. Instead, I ended up at one of those frozen daiquiri bars on Bourbon Street with a peach bellini daiquiri in my hand ($10 for a regular) and a smile on my face! Carlos, one of the bartenders, was chatting me up. He mentioned that I should go to the Mad Decent Block Party, an EDM festival, on Friday. I was only interested in seeing Big Gigantic and RL Grime, though. Since I had no way of knowing when they’d go on, I didn’t want to spend the whole day there. He said that if I changed my mind, he was determined to find me there!

The end of my first day in New Orleans came at approximately 3:00 a.m. I’d had a great dinner, a fun non-touristy experience at Celebration Hall, several drinks, had made a few new friends and no harm had come to me. What’s more important is that I didn’t even fall going up those stairs drunk!

Here’s some New Orleans inspiration ’cause this song has been going through my head all day. One night I want to dance to this song with some stranger in a smoky New Orleans bar on a sultry summer evening.

Danger, Will Robinson!

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Ok, folks, I’m off to New Orleans mid-week next week and possibly looking for a little companionship for a couple of evenings. What? No! Not THAT kind of companionship! Get your mind out of the gutter! I’m talking about someone who might possibly join me for an evening of live music, drinking and (heaven forbid) dancing in a heavily inebriated state. I can always go alone, but, once in awhile, it’s nice to meet some new people on vacation. My plans were to hit up The Candlelight Lounge on Wednesday night to hear a brass band, then go to the Rock N Bowl on Thursday night (zydeco night) to see Nathan and the Zydeco Cha Chas. Now I’ve already been to the Rock and Bowl 4 times – 3 of those times when it was out in Mid-City, pre-Katrina. The neighborhood was a little rough around the edges, but I traveled via cab and had a great time every time. Now it’s in a newer, “safer” neighborhood, but doesn’t quite have that same feel about it. Still, I love zydeco and will go there regardless. The Candlelight Lounge, on the other hand, has yet to be graced by my presence. It’s in either the Treme or the Bywater, supposedly a $10 cab ride from the French Quarter (and a cab has been recommended to go to/from there as well). It’s a bit more of a locals’ spot, but a fair amount of tourists seem to go there. I’m not really too concerned about going there alone, but asked on a couple of travel websites if anyone would be interested in joining me at either place.

This is my dilemma. A local woman answered me and said that she was interested in going to Celebration Hall on Wednesday night to see a brass band. She mentioned that she rides by there during the day on her bike, but has never been able to convince anyone to go to hear music there at night. She added that she would only take a cab to/from there at night. She also attached a link to show the brass band performing and people dancing. To be honest, it looks like a great and very unique night out. I told her that I’d be interested in going and for her to message me, which she did, with her phone number. Since then, I realized that Celebration Hall is in the 7th Ward, which doesn’t seem to come highly recommended by anyone. I’ve read that cabs often don’t even want to go there. I’ve traveled the world by myself 95% of the time. I’ve also lived in Los Angeles for many years, as well as Chicago (briefly). I’m wondering if the “danger” is all relative to what people are used to or how comfortable they feel. When I specifically mentioned Celebration Hall and the 7th Ward on a few other websites, asking for opinions, most of the responses were not very positive. Some said it’s ok, but to exercise caution. Others said they would never advise their wife or friend to go there. Finally, someone said that if the local wasn’t able to convince any of her friends to go, there must be a reason. At yet another person’s suggestion, I looked up the recent crime rate/activity in the 7th Ward. Let me tell you, it wasn’t pretty! I hate to reneg, but I’m starting to think that The Candlelight Lounge might be a better option after all. Do any of you readers/followers have any input? Have any of you been to either The Candlelight Lounge or Celebration Hall? There was also mention of a great bar with live music called Bullet’s Sports Bar, which happens to be in the 7th Ward, too. The locals in there are reputed to be extremely friendly and there’s the added bonus of BBQ out front. I’m even leaning towards that a little more than Celebration Hall.

Rest assured, I’m not a scaredy-cat. It takes a lot to phase me; my friend and I were chased by 4 young French guys in a random arrondissement in Paris, some Croatian guy drove me via motorcycle to the middle of a “bois” after dark (also in Paris and definitely unplanned) and I’ve also been followed by Muslim men in Georgetown. All of those situations ended up ok, though some by the skin of my teeth. By and large, the good outweighs the bad with people and in various neighborhoods. However, I don’t want to stress myself out and pay cab fare to somewhere that I won’t feel comfortable when I can stay closer to my home-away-from-home and either party in the Quarter (like all good tourists) or venture outside the Quarter to places with more favorable reviews where sketchiness is kept to a minimum.

So, peeps, let me know what you think and how this should play out. Until this dilemma is settled, I won’t even mention Snake and Jake’s Christmas Tree Lounge. (Ssshhhhh!!!)

Getting In Touch With Nature (and Polynesians)

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This past weekend was the occasion of the 2nd Annual Aloha Poly Festival, which prompted me to go to Golden Gate Park. It was being held at the Hall of Flowers. One of my co-workers had gone on Saturday and said that it was small and that the stage hadn’t been set up for performances when she was there in the morning. I wanted to lend my support nonetheless, so ventured out there on Sunday afternoon. I seldom take the MUNI train and can’t even remember the last time I was in Golden Gate Park. I took the N Judah to 9th and Irving. That was an adventure in itself as it quickly became PACKED with people on their way to the Outside Lands Festival, a huge music festival that was also being held in Golden Gate Park. The Aloha Poly Fest was indeed rather small, but that’s because it was only their second year and because they were crammed into the small space of the Hall of Flowers. There were, for the most part, the usual vendors. They were in dire need of more food booths, though. I only spied two – one for shave ice and one for plate lunches (which had a long line). When I arrived, a musician was singing and playing the ukulele. I made the once around, but chose not to hang out too long, as it was too crowded inside. All of the seats were taken for watching performances. If I stood elsewhere, I was either blocking an aisle or possibly blocking someone’s view of the stage. That’s what prompted me to explore the park a bit more.

I headed off to Stow Lake to take some pictures. It was a little further than I thought, but a pleasant walk. I had a T-shirt and hoodie on, but ended up taking the hoodie off as it warmed up. I took pictures along the way to the lake, at the lake, of bridges, of birds and nature, at the Japanese Tea Garden and also in that area near where those fountains are (sorry; don’t know what it’s called). Speaking of which, when did they start charging for the Japanese Tea Garden? It used to be FREE!!! Of course, I haven’t been there since around 2003. Even so, the admission was $5.00 for San Francisco residents and $7.00 for others. That seems a bit steep to me. It’s nice, but by no means spellbinding! I paid the $5.00, simply because I happened to have a fiver on me and wanted to take pictures. My time there probably totaled half an hour.

Then I went back to the Hall of Flowers in time to catch a great Tahitian dance troupe. Their emcee was amusing. His disclaimer was that he was NOT Tahitian; he was Filipino, but admitted that he looked Chinese! His daughter and wife performed together, as did his young son (with a little girl). Come to think of it, there never seem to be enough men that dance Tahitian!

That was the extent of my Sunday. As always, here are some photos to give you a glimpse.

Buddha in the Japanese Tea Garden

Buddha in the Japanese Tea Garden

Me on the Moon Bridge

Me on the Moon Bridge

Path to Who Knows Where

Path to Who Knows Where

Bridge in Golden Gate Park

Bridge in Golden Gate Park

Turtles and Ducks

Turtles and Ducks

Stow Lake

Stow Lake

I’m Not That Kind of Girl

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Although I’m no longer technically “active” on the on-line dating website, the messages continue to pour in.  They’re amusing, if nothing else.  Every so often, some random man who’s upset by my profile will send an incredibly angry message.  A man in his early 60’s sent me one the other day, but (unfortunately) I deleted it.  From this point on, I’ve decided to keep them and share them here on my blog, to give you a glimpse as to what type of men are out there in the “dating” world.

The following message is not a rant, but once in awhile, these type of messages come through as well.  Nicely written, I suppose, but it makes me wonder how many women actually take him up on his offer!

Hi There!

I’m ****. I’m originally from Europe. I live in San Francisco and work in the East Bay.

I’m smart, intelligent, very well-educated, very well-traveled, successful, etc., etc., etc.

I’ll be very honest in what I’m looking for. I’m looking for a woman, who’s older than me, to be my friend and lover.

I really liked your profile, and you look great.

Is this something that would be enjoyable for you and that you would consider?

Thank you.

****

P.S. I’m not comfortable posting pictures on this site, but you can see them here:

(I deleted the link because you don’t REALLY want to see his photos, do you?!)

Vive la France!

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A week ago today was Bastille Day, also known as French Independence Day.  Being the Francophile that I am, it’s not uncommon to see me out at the French bars on that day.  Actually, it’s not uncommon to see me out at the French bars on ANY given day!  Being rather grumpy, I’d considered, for something like a millisecond, not going out at all; staying home and drinking something French by myself as a mini celebration.  Then again, I thought “Who am I kidding?!  What kind of Francophile does that?!”

After work, I trucked on over to Amelie Wine Bar and grabbed a stool at the bar.  For some reason, I get really annoyed if the bar is full and I’m relegated to a table or chair elsewhere.  That’s why I’m there right when they open!  My friend, T., showed up about half an hour later.  Truth be told, he detests the French, based on his experiences during his two trips to France.  He loves their food, though.  He’d never been to Amelie before; this was his virgin visit.  He asked which of the bartenders were French and admired the owner from afar!  Another friend, L., showed up shortly after T.  Now she’s been to Amelie on numerous occasions to imbibe with me.  I was halfway through my red wine flight (sangiovese, cabernet franc and chianti) by the time they got there.  As they ordered their first flight, I went for my second one – sparkling wine and champagne, mais oui!  T. decided that he was hungry, so quizzed me on food.  I said that, even with a limited kitchen, everything they turned out seemed to be very good.  He ordered a duck rillette sandwich, as well as figs (or were those dates?  What’s the difference?) stuffed with blue cheese, and was quite happy with both.  L. ordered the raviole du Royans, one of their specialties, and was equally happy.

Next we headed up to Bouche.  The situation was reversed there; T. has been in there once or twice with me, but L. has never been there.  Although two stories, the restaurant is very small.  They were quite busy, as was to be expected, but we managed to squeeze in at the bar.  We had a first hand view of food being prepared, which made us order the scallops “tartare,” complete with edible flowers.  In addition, we decided to go for the duck confit.  Meanwhile, the owner poured us some Kir Royales.  The food was scrumptious; I loved the scallops, in particular.  When we were done eating, we thanked the owner, I hugged him goodbye and we were off to yet another place.

L. had to leave by then to attend a party, but T. and I made a quick run-through of Café Claude, Gitane and Plouf before deciding to have a final drink at Café Bastille.  I was getting tired by then and couldn’t even finish my drink, which was complimentary, thanks to the nice bartender.

There you have it.  It wasn’t a crazy Bastille Day, by any means, but pleasant with good company.  I only regret forgetting to wear my toile chapeau!

L. and Me at Amelie

L. and Me at Amelie

T. and L. at Amelie

T. and L. at Amelie

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